Everyone masturbates, whether they are single, in a terrible relationship or in a satisfying one. It’s just something everyone does, but it has nothing to do with being unsatisfied with their partner. Masturbation allows you the opportunity to discover what feels good. No one knows your body better than you do, so getting to know your body better, and then sharing with your spouse, helps them to get to know your body better too. This is why mutual masturbation is encouraged in a marriage. Ultimately, this process helps you achieve the highest level of satisfaction, stress release, and a deeper connection with your partner.
The idea of masturbation in front of your partner can be a little intimidating at first. This is because masturbation is usually something done in private, where you don’t have to worry about the faces you make, how you look, what you’re masturbating to, etc. This usually isn’t as fast paced as sex, and you aren’t completely consumed and unaware of your surroundings. For most, self stimulation is a personal intimate thing between you and yourself; you are aware of your surroundings, but you’re deliciously involved in yourself. Why wouldn’t you want to include your partner in that?
If you’re looking to take your relationship to the next intimate level, achieve orgasms during intercourse and connect more deeply with your partner, try the Orgasm Competition game.
Orgasm Competition
Racing your partner to see who can make it to the ‘Finish Line’ first.
- Lie naked, side by side, sitting up or however you are comfortable masturbating.
- Begin pleasuring yourself as your partner does the same
- Whoever comes first must give the other person manual or oral stimulation until they orgasm
- The winner gets to request a sexy treat now or they can save it for next time.
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