Foreplay is a crucial key when being intimate. Of course, there are times when it can be cut out entirely, though this is always case specific. Foreplay is especially important for women, as most women are not visually stimulated, unlike men; we need foreplay to increase desire for sexual activity. Increased desire also allows women the time to self-lubricate, which is imperative for great sex.
Foreplay should always consist of more than a kiss and a quick boob grab. Taking the time to ensure both you and your partner are properly aroused will always be beneficial for you both. When you take your time during foreplay, it becomes sensual and more about achieving the best mutual orgasm, rather than just a quickie, in and out.
The key to turning a woman on and getting her near the state of orgasmic ecstasy is to help her get a sense of relaxation and diminish anxiety; this is best achieved when you use slow seduction. You should help her feel sexy and desired; she can see your reaction to her body, which in turn, builds her confidence. The key to turning on a man is different, yet simple. To help him accomplish his orgasmic ecstasy, tease him a little, take a more forceful approach. By teasing your husband mercilessly and bringing him close to climax, you will ultimately intensify his orgasm.
Erotic Cards is a great game to be used during foreplay, the rules are simple and it’s guaranteed to provide a positive effect on you and your partner.
Erotic Cards
Start with a regular deck of playing cards; each suit has a different sexy meaning:
- Hearts are for kissing
- Diamonds are for a massage
- Clubs are for manual stimulation
- Spades are for oral
How to Play:
- You and your partner take turns picking up cards from the stack and teasing each other with each sexy move you draw.
- Your partner has to perform based on the card you draw.
- The numbers on the cards represent how long you have to do each action (in seconds); your partner gets to choose the body part.
Example: If she gets the nine of diamonds, he has to give her a sensual rubdown on the body part of her choosing, for nine seconds.
- The face cards, Jack, Queen and King, represent a body part for him or her. Regardless of who is drawing the card, the the act must be performed according to the face card drawn
- Jack = Her Breasts
- Queen = Her Vagina
- King = His Penis
Example:If he draws the Queen, even though she should be performing the act, he automatically must perform the act based on the suit to her vagina; she gets to choose the amount of seconds, 1-10. If she draws the King of Clubs, she must perform manual stimulation; He gets to choose the amount of seconds, 1-10.
Mix Up: To keep things interesting you can…
- To make the game last longer and increase pleasure, you can perform in minutes, rather than seconds.
2. You can change the body parts of the face cards
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