“Love doesn’t sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; re-made everyday, made new.” – Ursula LeGuin
- Make an effort to improve your everyday conversations with each other. Do you find it hard to come up with subjects to talk about? Are your words focused on uplifting and mind-stimulating ideas? Do you take time to problem solve together? If you find your conversations together lagging and uninteresting, do a search for thought provoking questions to get the ball rolling.
- Each person determine 2 effective ways the other person can help turn them on and/or excite them for sex. Try to implement what you discuss in your next lovemaking session.
- If possible, sleep somewhere other than your bed for the night. Set up a tent in your backyard, move your mattress to a different room, or book a night at a local hotel. Make sure the change of location is fun and refreshing.