Discuss appearance, focusing on the positive. Talk about the times you found your spouse the most attractive, including clothing choices, hair styles, make-up, facial hair, etc.
Using the items in your closet, have a fashion show for each other. Make sure to turn on some upbeat music and walk down your own version of the catwalk with as many sexy poses as you can. Keep the items that your spouse loves to see on you. Discard a few items that are not as appealing.
Give each other a back massage. This video shows how to give a good back massage.
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