As I’m sure you know, it is all too easy to get caught up in the moment as things start to heat up with your spouse. Unfortunately, sometimes, after you have been married for a little while, the heat can occasionally turn into a warm front or maybe even a cold front, let’s get this over with, I’m exhausted. To help heat things back up, try the Time Halt game.
You and your partner get to decide a time interval, let’s say, 20 minute rounds. However, if you’re usually quick to get down to business and 20 minutes seems to be an obscene amount of time, try 12 minutes. Regardless of the interval you choose, make absolutely certain that neither of you allows penetration. You and your partner will have 20 minutes, or however long you and your partner choose, of foreplay. You may want to start with something simple, like watching an adult film while mutually masturbating, role-play, foodplay etc. Then once the timer goes off you both decide if you want to set the timer again and move on to the next act without penetration, or if you want to get right down to it.
Most of us have foreplay with our spouses down to a science; we know exactly how to get in there and get our partners hot and ready. I’m sure, if you’re like me, you also do the bare minimum, more than you’d care to admit, to get right down to penetration because you can’t wait for the main course or maybe just to shorten the time after a long day.
Time Halt helps you to refocus on the pregame. The part that maybe takes a little longer, but it’s something that we used to enjoy so much. It keeps things exciting, helps to get all the right juices flowing. You’ll be surprised at how things start to heat up again knowing you have to take things slow and that there cannot be any penetration for the desired time interval.