Fantasying is always so much fun, and something everyone does. Sometimes we tend to be a little embarrassed and feel shy when trying to explain our sexual fantasies in detail to anyone, especially our spouses. But they are the ones we should confide in, maybe they are interested in trying the same thing. Maybe it works, and maybe it’s a complete disaster, but how will you know unless you try?
Start by getting a couple of Popsicle sticks, these are relatively cheap, usually no more than a couple of dollars at Walmart or any craft store. You can each have as many as you’d like, but try to keep your number matching his. Come up with and write down a few simples words to describe a sexual fantasy you’d like to try. When you both are done, mix them all together, there should be no way to differentiate between the Popsicle sticks. Put all the Popsicle sticks in a jar; I found that the Mason jar works the best.
You’ll want to make this romantic, even though some of your fantasies may not be romantic, per se. Setting a romantic zone for revealing something as intimate as this may help you to relax. You both will take turns pulling out a Popsicle stick, If you get yours, it’s easy, you explain in detail what you’re fantasy is. If you get your spouse’s Popsicle stick, you must try to guess based on the few words he’s provided what his fantasy is.
After you’ve gone through all of the Popsicle sticks and described all of your sexual fantasies in as much detail as you possibly can, you and your spouse should pick one to try that night. Go out and buy anything necessary, Go where the fantasy takes place, and create the scene if it’s somewhere you are unable to go. Then choose one for the following night (the other person fantasy) and make sure you do the same. Set up, get into character if necessary. Ensure that fantasy becomes a reality for the evening.