One of the best things my husband and I ever did for our love life was simply putting an oblong mirror next to our bed. It sits on top of a small dresser and leans against the wall, so when we’re on the bed, we get a great view of ourselves. We love it because sometimes when we’re so close to each other, our sense of sight is diminished. It’s nice to be able to get a more sweeping view of our intertwined bodies and sexy curves.
Sometimes I don’t feel very sexy, which makes it harder to get in the mood. But when I can look and see myself on top of my husband, comparing my femininity to his masculinity, and see how happy we both look, suddenly I feel sexy, and it makes the whole experience more sensational. According to my husband, sometimes he has to look away from the mirror, because the sight of my body moving on top of his is too much for him. I’m not going to lie; I love that.